Figuring out what you can change to make room for some new good stuff... that's actually possible.
There are so many amazing moms who know they want to feel good about prioritizing themselves, continue their commitment to being a great parent, and stop worrying about what baggage they'll pass onto their children.
The biggest challenge is figuring how to fit that all into your already busy, complex life. Trying to add new goals to an already full plate without removing the garbage distracting you from your thoughts and emotions can be exhausting.
The great news is that The Parent Empowerment Movement Coaching Program is going to simplify the entire process of how you make time for yourself to change habits and help you create less future baggage for your kids. The TPEM Coaching Program is for every beautifully-intentioned mom who needs help removing the unhealthy garbage from their plate they haven't been able to remove on their own.
Members of our 2021-2022 coaching program eating pie during one of our coaching sessions.
Our Group Coaching Program
Are you wishing you had a better handle on your family’s needs while also realizing you are neglecting your own? Do you wish you could leave the yelling and feeling of defeat behind and replace it with a feeling of “I’ve got this”? In our group coaching program you will gain a community without giving up the intimacy of a small trusted group. Together, with a group of other parents also searching for guidance, Felicia and Jenny utilize their career experience to help you dive into the depth of parenting that you are wishing you could reach right now. If you are feeling unsatisfied with your parenting experience and want more for yourself and your family, we are here to get you there. Join our Group Coaching Program today to gain insight, clarity, and confidence in yourself as a parent and a person, because you deserve it!
"I feel like all of my needs have been met and I have resources! Instead of floundering and thinking, 'I don't know what to do,' now I do know what to do!"
-Tiffany G.
"This is how it's supposed to feel... this is what I imagined parenting would be like."
-Kat W.
"I'm finally able to say, 'I got this!'"
-Belem S.
...you can see your vision of parenthood in great detail - how you'll treat each other, the quality time you'll have, what values you'll share - but everyday frustrations get in the way and you feel stuck (and alone) trying to get there.
...you are deeply committed to being a great parent, but trying to do that is burning you out and you don’t know what you could do differently that would work and feel better.
...you‘re starting to resent how much responsibility falls on you to take care of everybody else - while you get put on the back burner.
...teach your kids the values you want them to know, not what the rest of the world tells them.
...model behaviors you want your child to learn by making them easier for you to do too (things like self-advocacy, dealing with big emotions in healthy ways, and being able to actually "let it go.")
...cut to the chase and get your kids pitching in like a team without turning into "mad mommy" (or having to act like a perky fairy godmother all the time either).
...create more time for the things you love besides your children (even if the first step is figuring out what that is again).
...change what hasn't been working, whether in parenthood or personhood, and make it stick!
So how does it work?
It all comes down to integrity...
We are generational integrity coaches. That means we want ___________________ for the children of the world, and the best way to do that is by empowering the parents of the world.
To life a life with integrity, we think there are three areas of our being that need integrity:
Act with integrity, Structural integrity (in order to physically do what we set out to do, our plate can't be so overloaded that it's forming cracks)
Think in line with integrity, Wisdom integrity (thinking about and problem solving in ways that are logical, consistent, and make sense!)
Feel our way to integrity, Heart integrity (living a life in line with your values, beliefs, and priorities)
Isn't that great to know that when it comes to learning, the best way to care for the students (aka your child) is to care for the teachers (you the parent)? This is your permission to prioritize you and your unmet needs at the same time you deeply care about your kids!
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How generational integrity helps you and your kids
Generational integrity is about knowing that any problem you. have with how you or your family is living your day to day life is completely about you.
... is about knowing that it doesn't matter what your children, husband, or family members do, that only you and your actions are the ones that can make things better/the way you want them to be.
... is about recognizing that our own behavior is usually the source of the problem we're facing that we don't like very much.
Generational integrity is about knowing that the only way to living closer to the life you want to be living with yourself and your family is by being the change you wish to see. It's knowing that there is nothing you can learn, say, think, or do that has the power to make anyone else in your family act the way you want them to - that you only have power to change your own actions, attitudes, and ambitions to get it.
It's recognizing that no matter how badly you want it, you cannot control your child into being the perfect version of themselves you know you want them to be. It's about accepting who they are, where they are, and even if you don't understand why they are where they are, loving them and yourself anyway.
It's about knowing that things aren't happening because of any one pattern or event going on, but are the culmination of everything about your lives and that it will always forever be changing and evolving in ways you sometimes can't predict. And knowing that you're not supposed to.
Ready to let go of the idea that you “should be doing better” as a parent and replace it with “I am doing what I feel is right for me and my family”?
Join now and we will teach you how to get there and give you the tools to stay in that mindset!
